Life is full of choices. Every day we have to choose this or that, that or this, and on and on and on. It never ends. Decisions, decisions, decisions, and so much riding on the outcome. Nevertheless, a great number of people live in this kind of world without ever mastering the “Art and Skill” of decision-making.

—Ray Newkirk

Coaching Seminars & Workshops

Developing Coaching Capabilities

We explore the Organizing Perspective and Orientation of professional coaching, and engage in development and self-actualizing coaching. Our seminars and workshops address the following coaching concerns:

  • The Seven Different Coaching Capabilities

  • The Four Step Coaching Process and 34 Supporting Techniques

  • Executive Coaching, Leadership Development, Executive Development

  • Management Development, Development of High Potentials

  • Development of Coaching Professionals

  • How to Develop the Executive Coaching Proposal

  • How to Market Yourself as a Coach

  • Step-By-Step Guide for Delivering Coaching Capabilities

  • How to Deliver Coaching Services in Fix-It Projects

  • An 18 Step Process for Rescuing Executives and Key Contributors

  • Guidelines for Coaching the Coach

  • The Four-Skill Process of Developing Your Coaching Practice

  • The 17 Coaching Applications

  • 48 Coaching Techniques for Delivering Behavioral Change

Developing Consulting Capabilities

We explore the Organizing Principles and Orientation of professional consulting. Our consulting seminars and workshops explore the following consulting concerns:

  • Motivation in Building Your Consulting Success

  • A Powerful Consulting Philosophy

  • Key to Moving from Employee Role to Consultant Role

  • 15 Core Competencies for Consulting Success

  • The Critical Success Factors for Consulting Success

  • The Nine Fundamentals of High Impact Consulting and How to Use Them

  • Six Keys to Forging Client Relationships

  • The Eight Models of Organization Performance

  • The Eleven Phase Consulting Process

  • The Consultant’s Mission : Enhancing Human Performance

  • Using Testing to Accelerate Performance Improvement

  • High-Powered Interviewing Techniques

  • Writing High-Impact Reports

  • Consulting in Assessment and Selection

  • Ten Step Action Planning Process for Consultants

  • Evaluation and Development Services in Different Contexts

  • The Eight Most Effective Predictors of Executive and Leadership Potential

  • The Succession Development Process

  • 18 Barriers to High Performance

  • Six Critical Success Factors for High Performance and Using Them

  • 18 High-Powered Consulting Tools

  • The Art of Strategic Consulting

  • Surveys and Audits

  • Group Development

  • Supercharging Organization Performance

  • High Performance People Practices

Consulting and Coaching Fundamentals

  • The Consulting and Coaching Mission

  • The Consulting and Coaching Proposal

  • Consulting and Coaching in Work Groups, Teams, and Organizations

  • Consulting and Coaching in Organization Development and Design

  • The Barriers and Success Factors to High Performance Consulting and Coaching

Consulting and Coaching Tools and Techniques

  • Testing in Consulting and Coaching

  • High-Powered Interviewing Techniques for Consultants and Coaches

  • High-Powered Tools for Strategic Consulting and Coaching

  • Surveys and Audits

Consulting and Coaching Applications

  • Consulting on Employee Selection for Clients

  • Changing the Behaviors of Clients

  • Coaching for Goodness-of-Fit

  • Determining Executive and Leadership Potential

  • Troubleshooting Client Problems for Consultants and Coaches

  • Supercharging Organization Performance

  • Coaching for Client Development

  • Coaching the Coach

  • Executive Coaching

Legal Fundamentals of Consulting and Coaching

  • Contracts and Obligations

  • Billing Practices

  • Social Relationships

  • Professional Conduct

  • Gift Giving and Receiving

  • Recruitment of Client Employees

  • Confidentiality and Secrecy

  • Reflective External Behavior

  • Risk Management, Insurance, and Bonding

Simple Joy Seminars and Workshops

Mastering the Hidden Skills of Coaching Success

A Multi-Seminar Program

  • What is Coaching? 

  • First Objective:  To see others more clearly.

  • Second Objective:  To see ourselves more clearly.

  • Third Objective:  To build better relationships.

  • Fourth Objective:  To lead successful teams.

Seminar One:  Building Your Framework For Success

  • Module One:  Why Bother?

  • Module Two: Core Competencies of Successful Consultants

  • Module Three:  CSF Models for Effective C&C

  • Module Four:  Attaining Client Trust and Confidence

Seminar Two: The Core Soft-Skills of Success

  • Module One: Return to the Basics

  • Module Two: Changing Self-Image

  • Module Three: Building Assertiveness

  • Module Four: Energizing Teams

Seminar Three: Success Through Cooperation

Emotionally healthy people cooperate more than they go it alone.

What does cooperation mean to you, and what is the road to it?

  1. First Objective: Understand the art and skills of cooperation.

  2. Second Objective:  Better manage negative and failure oriented behaviors.

  3. Third Objective:  Become a more powerful leader, coach,  and consultant.

Overview:

We will examine difficult situations and the people who cause them.

We will explore techniques and methods for reducing negative situations.

We will clarify our role in influencing others:

  • Overcoming Prejudice

  • Improving Commitment

  • Motivating People

  • Changing Emotional States

  • Building Authentic Self-Esteem

  • Eliminate Self-Destruction

Seminar Four: CSF Models for Effective Innovation & Change

What We Are Here to Learn:

  • Mobilize innovation & change

  • Refine people-skills

  • Improve team building skills.

  • Enhance personal insight.

  • What We Are Here to Explore:

  • What it takes to be innovative.

  • How to lessen the pain of change.

How to achieve higher levels of performance.

  • First Objective:  Build your effectiveness as a professional contributor to the success of your organization.

  • Second Objective:  Safely acquire potent soft-skills to improve organization & team performance.

  • Third Objective:  Grow from an ad hoc or de facto coach & consultant into a well informed and experienced professional coaching & consulting specialist.

Seminar Five: Understanding the Value of Being Prudent

You are here to learn more about being a more powerful person by getting along better with yourself and others.

You are here to gain insight into your capabilities in mastering difficult situations with other people.

  • First Objective: Building the Prudence of Teams

  • Second Objective:  Building Your Communications Skills

  • Third Objective:  Building Your Social Skills

Seminar Six: CFF Models for Effective Innovation & Change

From the perspective of effective interpersonal relationships, we will explore the art of:

  • Building generosity

  • Overcoming irrational guilt

  • Building self-responsibility

  • Balancing emotional life

  • First Objective:  Learn methods to build authentic generosity,

  • overcome irrational guilt, build self-responsibility, and balance emotional life.

  • Second Objective:  Apply these methods to developing effective interpersonal relationships.

  • Third Objective:  Become a more responsive leader.

Seminar Seven:  Going to the Core

  • Overview: Ways to gain respect and overcome faults

  • The content is derived from the development of soft-skills that impact leadership

  • These methods work when you really learn to apply them

  • This seminar focuses on two core softskills of leadership and coaching:

  • Conquering Anger

  • Enhancing Respect

  • Building the respect of yourself and others.

  • Eliminating the anger of yourself and others.

  • Integrating these soft-skills with previous soft-skills.

  • Your performance objectives for mastering the content:

  • First Objective:  Master the art of respect

  • Second Objective:  Control negative situations

  • Third Objective:  become more effective

  • Establishing Respect

  • Acknowledging Faults

  • Conquering Anger 

Seminar Eight: Touching the Spirit

  • Overview:  Motivation is an “Inside Job”.

  • We will explore how to raise interest levels in oneself and others.

  • Background of material:  The material emerged from the experience that

  • people become desensitized to almost anything over time.

  • Clarifications: Motivation comes from the inside. 

  • I can not motivate anyone.  I can only give a reason for a person to motivate themselves.

  • This seminar continues the challenge of enabling others to

  • Master the Difficult Social Skills that make success possible and effectiveness a reality.

  • You are here to learn new ways to master yourself, difficult situations, and the expectations of others.

  • Why I am covering this:  Why not?  We can never have enough interest.

  • First Objective:  Improve our interest levels

  • Second Objective: Improve the interest levels of others

  • Third Objective: Become more effective raising interest levels

Seminar Nine: Mastering The Difficult Skills 6 Defusing the Confusing

  • Overview:

  • Defusing passive-aggressive behavior

  • Overcoming lateness

  • Defusing the Confusing

Seminar Ten: Moving From Beliefs & Values to Character

  • Overview: The relationship of belief to values

  • The art of understanding the belief and values  of other people

  • This is not a seminar in psychotherapy, but it can be a seminar in character development

  • This seminar takes you beyond the everyday understanding of trust and confidence so that you can more appropriately engage each attribute of your character.

  • It frees you from the constrains of uninformed behavior.

  • You will learn an approach for clarifying the nature of trust and confidence with others.

  • You will learn how to gain T&C, how to keep them, and how to lose them.

  • I will cover:  The entire trust and confidence paradox.

  • Why I am covering this:  To simplify your interpersonal relations and improve your odds of becoming a more effective person.

  • Beliefs & Values Continuum

  • Transformation

  • Building Loyalty

  • Your performance objectives for mastering the content:

  • First Objective: Identify your core beliefs and the related values.

  • Second Objective: Recognize how your professed beliefs and values conflict with your behaviors.

  • Third Objective:  Relate to yourselves with integrity (quit deceiving yourself).  You are who you are, this is you beliefs and values in action.

  • You have mastered this seminar when you meet the following performance objectives:

  • First Objective:  Identify core beliefs.

  • Second Objective:  Relate your values to these beliefs.

  • Third Objective:  Listen to you emotions.

Seminar Eleven: Core Competencies of Teams

  • We are here to learn how to kindly defuse Complainers:

  • Chronic Complainers and How to Manage Them

  • We all complain sometimes, this is not about us.

  • This seminar leads you through several methods that reduce the negative impact of complainers.

  • This seminar transforms complainers into contributors.

  • This seminar defuses the damage caused by complainers before the situation collapses.

  • First Objective: Improve listening skills.

  • Second Objective: Reduce complaining.

  • Third Objective: Lead the complainer to effectiveness.

  • Fourth Objective: Defuse Complaining

Seminar Twelve: Paving Your Road to Success II

  • Module One: Fundamentals of High-Impact C&C  Understanding Your Client

  • Module Two:  Common Organization Performance Models

  • Module Three: The Organization-Human Systems Continuum

Seminar Thirteen:  Putting Your Stake in the Ground

  • The Subject of the Seminar Series is Soft-skills Building for Enduring Success.

  • This series covers the framework, models & powerful techniques of authentic C&C.

  • We offer this series, because soft-skills are central to building & leading successful teams.

  • Where do you go after you have tried everything?

  • This seminar series will teach you what Coaching & Consulting (C&C) actually is.

  • You will see that it is both an authentic psychological discipline and applied art.

  • The Motivation Design Process.

  • The Different Roles & Responsibilities of C&C.

Seminar Fourteen: Fundamentals of High-Impact Leadership

  • Attaining Client Trust & Confidence

Seminar Fifteen: Living The Gentle Life

  • This series will assist you in:

  • Making sense of your spiritual life

  • Gaining deeper understanding of negative behaviors that can impede spiritual progress.

  • Gaining powerful insights into defining attitudes of spirituality

  • Overcoming behaviors that impede spiritual progress

  • Overview:

  • You will explore the spiritual life in-depth.

  • You will learn about the Presence of the Sacred.

  • You will clarify central concepts about spirituality and holiness

  • You will lean an approach for growing in the Presence of the Sacred

  • This seminar is about how to enjoy your spiritual life by gaining gentleness.

  • Emotionally healthy people are more gentle than others.

  • What does gentleness mean to you, and what is the road to it?

  • First Objective:  Build your understanding of the relationship between spirituality and an effective life.

  • Second Objective:  Safely acquire insights and practices that enable you to

  • live a fulfilling life by enjoying being in the Presence of the Sacred.

  • Third Objective:  Advance in growth from spiritual childhood to spiritual adulthood.

  • This seminar explores ways to:

  • Develop gentleness in spiritual life

  • Increase self-esteem and forgiveness

  • Reduce the drive for Spiritual Self-Destruction

  • First Objective: Understand the art and skill of being Present to the Sacred.

  • Second Objective:  Eliminate negative and failure oriented behaviors that impede spiritual life.

  • Third Objective:  Increase one’s openness and receptiveness to the Grace of God.

  • Fourth Objective:  Eliminate negative and failure oriented behaviors that impede spiritual life.

  • Fifth Objective: Increase one’s openness and receptiveness to the Grace of God.

  • Requirements for Gentleness

  • Living the Gentle Life

  • You have mastered this seminar when you meet the following performance objectives:

  • First Objective:  Recognize self-defeating behaviors of yourself that impede spiritual progress

  • Second Objective:  Determine ways to reduce or eliminate negative behaviors

  • Third Objective:  Cooperate with God

Seminar Sixteen:  Core Competencies of Teams

  • First Objective:  Improve listening skills.

  • Second Objective:  Reduce complaining.

  • Third Objective:  Lead the complainer to effectiveness.

  • Fourth Objective:  Defuse Complaining

Seminar Seventeen: Becoming A Gentle Executive

  • Many speak about spirituality, but live as if there is no tomorrow.

  • Many speak about holiness, but say little about how to become holy.

  • There is a burning desire for many executives to live a spiritual life, and even to become holy.

  • This series offers a unique program for presenting yourself to the Sacred, for assisting you along your way to practical holiness, which is the ultimate plan for your life.

  • This series will assist you in:

  • Making sense of your professional life with an expanded perspective

  • Gaining deeper understanding of negative behaviors that can impede spiritual and executive progress.

  • Gaining powerful insights into defining attitudes of spirituality in executive life

  • Overcoming behaviors that impede spiritual progress

  • The Spiritual Approach to Executive Life

  • Spirituality through Gentleness

Seminar Eighteen: Understanding the Roots of Great Performance

  • UlThule™ Performance

  • Intelligence is not enough

  • Performance is not enough

  • UlThule™ Forever

Seminar Nineteen: Coaching For Career Self-Renewal

  • Time To Move On To The Bigger & Better Opportunity

  • Laying the Foundation to Your Career Self-Renewal

  • Listen To Your Dreams

  • Articulation of a Life-Time

  • Reframing Your Mind

  • Evaluating The Path

  • Linking the Perception with the Reality

  • Identifying the Relevant Conditions

  • Asking the Right Questions

  • Self-Development & Beyond

  • Timing Is Everything

  • Success or Failure through Emotions

  • Documenting Important Matters

  • Hitting Your Visions, Dreams, Missions, or Goals

Seminar Twenty: Building Personal Potency 

  • You are here to learn more about being a more powerful person by getting along better with yourself and others.

  • You are here to gain insight into your capabilities in mastering difficult situations with other people.

  • First Objective: Building the Prudence of Teams

  • Second Objective:  Building Your Communications Skills

  • Third Objective:  Building Your Social Skills

  • Building Team Prudence

  • Building Communications Skills

  • Building Social Skills

  • You have mastered this seminar when you meet the following performance objectives:

  • First Objective:  Prudence – what do you think?

  • Second Objective:  Communications – what do you think?

  • Third Objective:  Socially relatedness – what do you think?

  • Cultivate Potent Leadership

Seminar Twenty-One: Professional Maturity Requires Focus

  • The Focus Life-Cycle

  • Focusing for Improved Control

  • The Focus Formula of Success

  • The Environment of Focus

  • The Power of Focusing

  • Changing Your Life Through the Your Power to Focus

  • The Rule of Attention

  • The Rule of Appreciation

  • The Rule of Appreciation

  • The Rule of Appreciation

  • The Focus Formula of Success

  • The Environment of Focus 

Seminar Twenty Two: Understanding Emotions to Lead People to Change

  • Relationships between Values and Emotions

  • Unconscious Connections

  • Behavior, Emotions & Values

  • Relationship Living

  • First Objective: Better Understand the emotional life of the person

  • Second Objective: Develop a deeper understanding of the nature of emotions

  • Third Objective: Better integrate values, emotions, and behaviors.

Seminar Twenty-Three: Mastering the Psychology of Focus

  • We are presenting this series because:

  • The more you learn, the more powerful you  become at resolving the unexpected.

  • You make better decisions and forge powerful relationships.

  • You want to build a mature organization.

  • You better manage important aspects of your life.

Seminar Twenty-Four: Using Coaching to Enhance Mentoring

  • Mentoring Character

  • Mentoring Maturity

  • Mentoring Intelligence

  • Mentoring for Productivity

  • Mentoring Cultivation

  • Mentoring Claritry

  • Finding Authentic Success
    Through Mentoring

  • Creativity in Mentoring

  • Intuition in Mentoring

  • Relationships in Mentoring

  • Ethical Mentoring 

Seminar Twenty-Five: Mastering the Art of Persuasion

  • A Persuasion paradox

  • Three characteristics of Persuasiveness

  • Techniques of Persuasion

  • Gifts of Persuasion

  • The Liking Principle

  • The Creditor Personality

  • The Reciprocity Rule

  • The Contrast Principle

  • The Anchor Point Traps

  • Defending Yourself Against Unwanted Persuasion 

Seminar Twenty-Six: Fifty: Communicating for Success

  • The Paradox of Human Communications

  • Communicating for Success  

Seminar Twenty-Seven: The UlThule™ Way Beyond Peak Performance

  • The Process of Developing Really Great Performance

  • The Experience Trap

  • UlThule™ Development 

Seminar Twenty-Eight: Becoming A Gentle Soul

  • Introduction

  • The Spiritual Approach to Life

  • Spirituality through Gentleness 

Seminar Twenty-Nine: Putting Your Stake in the Ground

  • Introduction to Coach & Consulting

  • Defining Coaching

  • Understanding Deliberate Practice

Seminar Thirty: Core Competencies of Successful Coaches & Consultants 

  • Clarifying Client Expectations

  • Mastering the Coaching & Mentoring Environment

  • Distinguishing Coaches from Consultants

  • Cultivating Potent Leadership

The SMI Crossroads Program

Designed to Navigate the Pitfalls & Tarpits of a Coaching Career

Crossroads Program Objectives

  • First Objective:  Build your effectiveness as a professional contributor to the success of your organization.

  • Second Objective:  Safely acquire potent softskills to improve organization & team performance.

  • Third Objective:  Grow from an ad hoc or de facto coach & consultant into a well informed and experienced professional coaching & consulting specialist.

Seminar One: Mastering the Coaching and Consulting Environment

  • Putting Your Stake in the Ground

  • Building Your Framework for Success

  • Critical Success Factor Models for Effective Coaching

  • Fundamentals of High-Impact Coaching

Seminar Two: Mastering Hidden Skills of C & C Success

  • Understanding Your Client

  • Clarifying Client Expectations

  • Moving From Beliefs and Values to Character

  • Beyond the Basics

Seminar Three: Developing Successful C&C Skills

  • Building Authentic Cooperation

  • Returning to the Basics

  • Going to the Core

  • Mastering the Core Competencies of Teams

Seminar Four: The Coaching Side of Mentoring Success

  • Coaching to Make Powerful Decisions

  • Mastering Coaching to Help People Change

  • Attaining Coaching and Mentoring Success

  • Mastering the Coaching and Mentoring Environment

  • Using Coaching to Enhance Your Mentoring Program

Seminar Five: Coaching in Turbulent Environments

  • Defusing the Confusing

  • Coaching Difficult Clients

  • Using Coaching to Overcome Turbulence in Organizations and Teams

Seminar Six: Leading Better through UlThule™ Coaching

  • Great Performance is Counter-Intuitive

  • Attaining UlThule™ Performance

Seminar Seven: Refining Communication Skills for Coaching Success

Coaching is Communicating

Seminar Eight: The Role of Intelligences and Emotions in Coaching Success

  • Doing the Hard Work

  • Minding the Spirit

  • Coaching Others with Influence to Change Minds

  • Understanding Emotions to Help People Change

  • Self-Awareness through Emotional Intelligence

  • Emotional Intelligence Requires Emotional Understanding

Seminar Nine: Coaching for Career Self-Renewal

  • Where Do You Go From Here?

UlThule™ Coaching

Decision making effot is not as silly as it sounds because decision-making is actually a rigorous process that requires well-informed effort to work properly and a special kind of mastery to render laudable decisions. In other words, powerful decision making require some smarts. —RLN